There is nothing more frustrating then longing for and wanting something so badly and it not happening . I have worked with countless woman through the ups and downs of fertility and have helped them overcome emotionally the disappointment of failed treatments and not getting pregnant when they had hoped.
we live in a world these days where we all want the quick fix , people want to be happy so they take a pill , they want to be skinny so they take another pill , some want to be married so badly they settle for far less then they deserve and others want a baby NOW so they do countless fertility treatments . There are no quick fixes ” Babies come into this world how and when they are ready. ” Just because you are ready to have a baby doesn’t mean that child is ready to come into this world and be born yet . We all have our own divine timing.
I have to say this because this is something I never knew before I started working with fertility clients . I always thought if I couldn’t have a baby , no big deal I would do in vitro and have a kid . I am here to say you don’t always get pregnant with in vitro . It sometimes takes a few times before or if you actually get pregnant . Woman don’t always tell you just how many times it took or what they went through in the process . I am not saying fertility treatments aren’t good , they are and have helped so many woman have children , just know that It might not happen right away , again divine timing .
I was working with a woman who went through years of fertility treatments , she always had this deep inner knowing and had countless dreams about a baby girl . We did a visualization which I do with my clients to call in their baby and we both saw a girl . She already had a name picked out for her . She under went a few more fertility treatments which failed and again , leaving her feeling defeated . She cried saying she did everything right and screamed why isn’t it happening ?? She did do everything right , she was amazing . We spoke about timing . I compared it to something I was going through and was having a hard time with , same thing just a different situation . I am ready to meet my husband, I told her , Im doing everything right and yet it hasn’t happened yet . Im frustrated because I am so ready to share my life with someone but just because I am ready doesn’t mean that he is ready yet . Once again its not just my timing but I am working with someone else’s as well . After that I had her focus on doing something she had been wanting to work on or do in the meantime . She started working on starting a non profit foundation , took a few months off fertility treatments and got pregnant .
When you can surrender and trust Gods timing , there is a reason why things don’t happen when you want them to . You don’t always get why right away but in time its always revealed .
By the way my client just gave birth to that baby girl that she always knew she was going to have and named her daughter the name she always knew she would call her . We spoke the other day about timing and she said in retrospect , if it happened any earlier she wouldn’t be doing the amazing work in the world that she is starting to do and her husband and her wouldn’t have had the few years together to build the solid foundation of a married couple they now have if They had had a baby right away .. so you just never know why things don’t happen when you want them too .
I know how hard it is to do – Don’t give up , let go and give it to God and trust divine timing that there is a bigger purpose in it all . I promise you it might not make sense right now why it’s not happening but in time you will get why .